A Different Way to Look at Your Baby’s
or Toddler’s Sleep
5 perspectives that help you understand what’s really
going on – and something small you can try tonight.
What is this about?
This is a free guide for parents of babies and toddlers who are struggling with sleep. Most sleep advice focuses on what to do – but sleep isn’t just a technique problem. It’s connected to biology, emotions, your own nervous system, the bigger developmental picture, and practical everyday life.
In this guide, Heidi Winkler – pediatric nurse, IBCLC, and sleep
consultant with 20+ years of experience – shares five integrated
perspectives on your child’s sleep. Each perspective comes with
one small, practical thing you can try tonight.
No rigid methods. No fear-mongering. Just clarity, warmth, and something real to try.
How will this help?
After reading this guide, you’ll have:
A clearer understanding
of what’s really going on
behind your child’s sleep
Five different perspectives
that most sleep advice
completely ignores
One small, doable thing you
can try tonight for each
perspective
A sense that someone finally under-
stands the whole picture – not just
bedtime or sleeping through the night
For the past eight years, I’ve worked as a maternity
nurse and nanny in private households internationally,
accompanying families from birth through the early
years. Before that, I spent more than a decade in
pediatric nursing and family consulting.
Over the years, I’ve cared for babies and young
children through countless nights – in hospitals and
in family homes – and learned firsthand how intense
and exhausting the early months and years can be. I
know what 3am feels like: the quiet, the responsibility,
the deep tiredness, and the need to stay steady when
you still have to function the next day.
I believe that when parents feel supported,
informed, and calm, everything shifts. A truly
good start shapes not only sleep, but the entire
foundation of family life – and that belief is what
led me to create The Integrated Sleep program.
A Different Way to Look at Your Baby’s or Toddler’s Sleep
A free guide with 5 perspectives that help you understand what’s
really going on – and something small you can try tonight.
What Parents say
Heidi has made all the
difference during my
initiation to fatherhood.
Every time my wife and
I are on the brink of
uncertainty, Heidi is the
first person we reach
out to. She always takes
time to listen, reassure
us, and provide great
options based on her
amazing knowledge and
Our little one arrived
early and we didn’t feel
ready to leave hospital
without support. That’s
when we found Heidi,
who turned out to be
a godsend. In those
first few days at home
we were feeling very
vulnerable, and her
expertise and kindness
was just what we
My son Laurenz and I
came to Heidi for sleep
support. He’s sleeping
so much better now,
and I feel much more
relaxed and clear when
it comes to sleep. I
felt so well looked
after. Above all, your
incredibly warm and
appreciative way really
did me good. Thank
In my first conversation with Heidi, I told her my story and was immediately overwhelmed by my own feelings. And that’s exactly what helped — she gave me back the view of the bigger picture that I had lost. I was stuck in my own hamster wheel
Heidi simply managed, with her incredibly positive nature and her broad knowledge, to help our daughter sleep through the night — and nap for 1–2 hours during the day again. We all feel so much better. She also supported us with weaning,
This guide is for parents of babies and toddlers (newborn through about
3 years old) who are struggling with sleep and looking for a different
approach – one that makes sense of the whole picture, not just bedtime
or sleeping through the night.
What will I receive?
A beautifully designed PDF guide with five perspectives on your child’s sleep, each with one practical thing you can try tonight. It’s a short read — calm, clear, and designed for tired parents.
How do I get the guide?
Enter your first name and email address, and the guide will be sent to your inbox right away. If you don’t see it within a few minutes, check your spam folder.
Is this free?
Yes, completely free. By signing up, you’ll also receive occasional emails from me with insights and support around baby and toddler sleep. You can unsubscribe at any time.
Is this sleep training?
No. My approach is accompaniment-based — it’s about understanding your child’s sleep, supporting your own regulation, and finding practical steps that work with your child’s biology, not against it.
“Heidi has made all the difference during my initiation to fatherhood. Every time my wife and I are on the brink of uncertainty, Heidi is the first person we reach out to. She always takes time to listen, reassure us, and provide great options based on her amazing knowledge and lifetime of experience. With all the conflicting information and different approaches out there, it can be very difficult for new parents to untangle it all. Heidi has been exceptional in helping us find the right path in our new family’s journey.”
DJ
with Pattama & Sophia
“Our little one arrived early and we didn’t feel ready to leave hospital without support. That’s when we found Heidi, who turned out to be a godsend. In those first few days at home we were feeling very vulnerable, and her expertise and kindness was just what we needed. It is obvious that she has a deep-rooted love and interest for babies and their upbringing. We felt safe to ask all the stupid questions.”
Cyrus P.
with Olivia & Caspar
“My son Laurenz and I came to Heidi for sleep support. He’s sleeping so much better now, and I feel much more relaxed and clear when it comes to sleep. I felt so well looked after. Above all, your incredibly warm and appreciative way really did me good. Thank you for the extra dose of calm you gave me around sleep — and for the warmhearted support.”
Birgit & Laurenz
“In my first conversation with Heidi, I told her my story and was immediately overwhelmed by my own feelings. And that’s exactly what helped — she gave me back the view of the bigger picture that I had lost. I was stuck in my own hamster wheel and had forgotten to stop and just breathe. Of course children sense when their mother is stressed or overwhelmed, and they mirror it back. The change in my little one was simply wonderful — from daily crying and tears to a smile. Heidi gave me a new perspective that I can use not just with my family, but in many situations in life.”
Sabrina Gruber,
mother of two boys
“Heidi simply managed, with her incredibly positive nature and her broad knowledge, to help our daughter sleep through the night — and nap for 1–2 hours during the day again. We all feel so much better. She also supported us with weaning, which we probably never would have managed so well on our own. We can warmly recommend Heidi to any family.”